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成功婚姻的秘訣
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2017/3/27 12:28:54

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成功婚姻的秘訣

For many married couples, falling in love and saying "I do" was the easy part. Living happily ever after is the part that takes a whole lot of work.

對于許多的已婚夫婦來(lái)說(shuō)，墜入愛(ài)河和說(shuō)“我愿意”非常容易。但從此以后過(guò)上幸福美滿(mǎn)的生活則需要付出大量努力。

My family history doesn't have the best track record when it comes to the vow "until death do us part." My parents divorced when I was 18, and on my mom's side alone, not one single marriage has lasted (keep in mind, she's one of eight siblings). One might think this would make me a cynic when it comes to marriage - but for some unexplainable reason, that's not the case. Maybe I'm an idealist, but I think you can fall in love with your best friend, grow old together, and even live happily ever after.

在履行結婚誓言“直到死亡將我們分開(kāi)”方面，我的家族并沒(méi)有最好的記錄。在我18歲的時(shí)候，我的父母離婚了，單單就我母親這邊，沒(méi)有一段婚姻是長(cháng)久的（記住哦，她可是有8個(gè)兄弟姐妹的）?？赡苣銈儠?huì )覺(jué)得我對待婚姻的態(tài)度應該是憤世嫉俗的，但我卻覺(jué)得人們可以與好朋友相戀，一起慢慢變老，自此以后過(guò)上幸福美滿(mǎn)的生活。

I sought out some honest advice from real people who might have insight as to what makes a marriage stand the distance. I reached out to all the married couples and divorcées I knew and asked them the burning question, "What's the secret to making a marriage successful?" Read their words of wisdom below:

在什么能使婚姻長(cháng)久方面，我詢(xún)問(wèn)了對此頗有見(jiàn)解的朋友，他們給了我一些真誠的建議。我聯(lián)系了我認識的所有已婚夫婦和離婚人士，問(wèn)了他們一個(gè)重要的問(wèn)題，“成功的婚姻有什么秘訣呢？”下面就是他們的智慧語(yǔ)錄：

1. Share everything with each other. Most importantly, everything you are feeling. There is no way to be on common ground if you don't communicate how you're feeling.

1. 任何事情都一起分享。最為重要的是，要分享你的所有感受。如果不交流彼此的想法，那無(wú)論如何你們都不會(huì )找到共同點(diǎn)。

2. Whatever bad stuff happens, remember this, too, will pass.

2. 不管發(fā)生多么糟糕的事，都要記住這一點(diǎn)：一切都將成為過(guò)去。

3. Affection breeds more affection. Touch each other, kiss each other good morning, and have plenty of sex (even when you're old!). It's too easy to get out of the habit, which makes you feel distant. Intimacy and physical affection really help keep you connected.

3. 好感會(huì )帶來(lái)更多的好感。觸碰彼此、相互親吻道聲早上好，還有滾床單（即使當你們老了?。?。改掉這個(gè)習慣太難了，如果戒掉，你們之間就會(huì )產(chǎn)生距離感。親密無(wú)間和身體上的接觸能讓你們心靈相通。

4. Children can be stressful, but they, too, will grow up.

4. 孩子們可能承受著(zhù)很大的壓力，但他們總會(huì )長(cháng)大的。

5. Let the little things go and think big picture. Since you're in it for the long haul, are you really going to care who did or didn't run the dishwasher when you look back in 10 years? Remind yourself that your relationship is much, much bigger than any one minor incident.

5. 不要糾結于小事，要思考大局。既然你想要婚姻長(cháng)久，那么十年后當你回顧過(guò)去，你真的會(huì )糾結于誰(shuí)開(kāi)了洗碗機這個(gè)問(wèn)題嗎？謹記這一點(diǎn)：你們的愛(ài)情遠比一些小事重要得多。

6. Fill the fridge with his favorites - it's easy to do, so just do it.

6. 冰箱里裝滿(mǎn)他愛(ài)吃的食物——做到這一點(diǎn)太容易了，行動(dòng)起來(lái)吧。

7. Take time for yourself to do what you love, what makes you happy and gives you energy - being successful as a couple will only work if each of you is independent and fulfilled as an individual.

7. 抽時(shí)間做自己愛(ài)做的事、令自己高興的事、能讓自己充滿(mǎn)活力的事——如果婚姻關(guān)系中，兩個(gè)人都很獨立、有理想，那么這樣的婚姻才會(huì )成功。

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